NORTHERN CRANE
PUBLIC SAFETY SEMINAR:
REFUSE
TO BE A VICTIM ®
&
CIVIL/SELF-DEFENSE
WORKSHOP:
SURVIVAL
TACTICS & STRATEGIES
/ SURVIVAL BASICS
101
SEMINAR INSTRUCTOR:
SENSEI
PHIL PEREZ, RENSHI - 6TH DAN - OKINAWAN MATSUMURA SEITO SHORINRYU HAKUTSURU
KARATEJUTSU & KOBUJUTSU. SIFU -YANG STYLE TAIJIQUAN (TAI CHI) &
TAIJIQUAN JIAN.
This
one day seminar will be taught in two parts. Part one held in the morning will inform the participants in practical ways they can
prevent crime targeting them, their family and their property. Along with a
comprehensive presentation of the problems that could exist at home, in the
workplace or anywhere in between - and their most effective and efficient
solutions. The tuition price includes the text book for this seminar which is
provided to each seminar participants to keep.
Part
Two will be held in the afternoon and will teach hands-on practical self-defense
techniques such
as grab escapes and criminal assault and abduction defenses as
well as the use of common everyday items in self-defense. The basic use of
the small key holder rod or Kubotan®
will be taught. Practice Kubotans will be provided for the seminar and actual
ones for the personal use of seminar participants to keep is also included in
the Tuition price.
The Law as it pertains to civil self-defense will also be addressed. This
seminar is designed for participants to work together with a partner so
participants should, if at all possible sign up for the seminar series with a
training partner. There isn’t another public safety program like this in New
England! For more information please call Sensei Phil Perez at 985-8582.
PART
I
9
am -12 pm - REFUSE TO BE A VICTIM®
- NRA
Women's Division approved and designed seminar consisting of an audio and visual
assisted 3 hour lecture presentation. The reference/text book for this seminar
is included in tuition price.
$25.00
per participant
PART II
1
pm - 4 pm - CIVIL/SELF-DEFENSE WORKSHOP This second half of the full day seminar
is a hands-on self defense class where participants will be taught simple
escaping techniques that really work - everytime! Kubutan®
included in price. (PART I IS REQUIRED FOR ADMISSION TO PART II)
$25.00
per participant -
Class size limited to 20 (10 pairs)
$50.00
per participant - Both Seminars.
Seminars
held at:
Northern
Crane Martial & Natural Healing Arts Center
Limerick
Business Park
39
Limerick Road, Arundel,
Maine
THE
FOLLOWING IS INFORMATION THAT WE AT NORTHERN CRANE MARTIAL ARTS ASSOCIATION FEEL
THAT THE GENERAL PUBLIC SHOULD BE AWARE OF FREE OF CHARGE:
CIVIL SELF-DEFENSE:
AWARENESS, AVOIDANCE & CIVIL SELF- DEFENSE AGAINST
CHILD ABDUCTIONS, MUGGINGS, RAPE AND HOME INVASIONS.
INTRODUCTION
This part of the Northern Crane Web Page is
dedicated to disseminating vital civilian self-defense including rape
prevention, child abduction prevention, home invasion security and general crime
prevention awareness information to our community at large. Although it is
great to possess this information, it is by far not complete and can never take
the place of true self-defense oriented martial arts training of at least one
year in duration or more. Having said that, we at Northern Crane feel that
it is our civic responsibility if not our duty to make this information
available to the general public for free here and for a nominal cost in our NRA
Refuse to be a Victim® / Northern Crane Civil/Self Defense seminar.
For some people, regular training in
self-defense martial arts is out of the question for a variety of reasons. In
these cases we feel that the next best option is to become as familiar as a
person can be with this vital information and enhance it with some very basic
awareness, avoidance and hands on reactive self-defense techniques that can only
be taught face to face. With this in mind, we at Northern Crane offers one
day - 6 hour long seminar (see above). This seminar are held on site at Northern Crane on specially selected
Saturdays.
Pre-registration is required. These seminars as stated above are open to the general ADULT public (18 and older). The following information
is best used as a primer for these seminars.
- Child
Abduction
- Personal
Abduction
- Violent
Crime and Rape
- Home
Invasion and Burglary
CHILD
ABDUCTION
CHILD ABDUCTION STATISTICS:
- Approximately 4,600 children are
abducted by strangers
(non family members) each year in the United States.
- Approximately 120,000 abductions are
attempted each year.
- Approximately 300 long term
abductions take place each year where the children are either murdered,
never found, or returned to their families for months or even years.
- Approximately 438,200 children are
currently lost or otherwise missing.
- Approximately 354,00 children are
abducted by family members each year.
- Approximately 450,700 children run
away from home each year.
- Approximately 127,100 children are
thrown away each year.
WHAT CAN PARENTS DO TO PREVENT
ABDUCTIONS:
- Talk to your child frankly about
abductions.
- Teach you child about AVOIDANCE,
AWARENESS & SELF-DEFENSE.
- Don't hide what's out there from
your child.
- Make your child aware of how
abductors and molesters work and the techniques they use to get their
victims.
- Enter your child around the age of
12 or not much older than 14 in a self-defense oriented martial arts school
like Northern Crane and keep them there until they graduate from high school
and leave home. This is the best survival education your child can receive
and is no less important for their survival in our society than learning how
to read, write and balance a checking account. Much earlier than 12 can
be counterproductive, your child may not be mature enough physically,
emotionally, socially or intellectually for a true martial arts program.
Older than 14 may be too late to prevent any unwholesome peer pressure from
taking hold of your child.
PRECAUTIONS TO TAKE WITH YOUR CHILD:
- Parents MUST know the families of
their child's friends.
- Fingerprint and have current
photographs of your children available.
- Children should use the buddy
system. NEVER allow a child especially under 12 to walk or ride bikes
alone, at night or even during the day.
- Teach your child to always head towards traffic when
riding (on a side walk wherever possible) or walking so that an abductor cannot drive up behind the child and
pull them into their vehicle. (Adults or teens should always ride a bike in
the direction of traffic when on the road).
- NEVER allow a child to hitch-hike or
accept rides from friends unless you have given permission. You also should
never hitch-hike either.
- Never leave a child in a vehicle
when going into a store even if it's just for a few minutes.
- Give your child a secret CODE word
known only to family members in the event of an emergency. (Do not use birth
dates, Super Heroes, etc.). During an emergency if someone has to pick
up your child from school, a park, etc. they must know the Secret CODE word
for your child to go with them. Otherwise always inform your child as
to who will be picking them up if someone else will be picking them up
instead of you.
- Do not allow your child's name to be
displayed anywhere where an abductor may read it (lunch box, bike license
plate, etc.). When a child is called by their own name it is easier
for an abductor to get their initial attention and trust.
- If anyone has to pick up your child,
they MUST know the secret CODE word for your child to go with them.
- If a strange vehicle or person tries
to approach, DO NOT GO NEAR THE VEHICLE! Keep walking or run if necessary.
- If a strange vehicle approaches, run
in the opposite direction of vehicle or traffic.
- Teach your child there is NEVER any
reason why a strange adult needs the help of a child for ANYTHING (asking
for help finding lost or getting a closer look at puppies and or kittens in
the car are standard fare)!
- A stranger is ANYONE who a parent
has not approved the child to be with while the parent is not also there.
There are too many cases where children think a stranger is someone who
looks WEIRD rather than a regular or nice looking person who may have bad
intentions towards your child.
- Bus stops are common areas for child
abductors to use. They will tell the child the bus is broken down or if
the weather is inclement, that they can get out of the elements with them.
- Parks are common lurking grounds for
abductors! Any child under 12 should be directly supervised and those over
12 should always use the Buddy System.
- Never allow a small child to use a
public restroom alone! Always have them escorted.
- Always make sure you know where your
child is, with whom and when they will be returning.
- Teach your child at a young age how
and when to use 911. Disconnect the phone and pretend that you are the
dispatcher the child is calling.
- Make sure your child knows their full
name and yours, their complete address to your home and your complete phone
number. Also how to write them as soon as they can. Drill them repeatedly until they have memorized these crucial
facts.
- Let your child know that if ANYONE
touches them in their private areas that they should let you know.
That includes people they know or that you know; friends of the family,
relatives, clergy, teachers, coaches, scout leaders, ANYONE. Never
allow your child to be alone with any adult that you are not absolutely
comfortable with, this includes Martial Arts teachers.
- Purchase and teach your children to
use small inexpensive yet good quality walkie-talkies. They are now
easily available and are great in case you get separated from your child at
a large public gathering such as a county fair, mall, etc. They are a
good idea any time your child is just outside playing with friends next door
or down the block. Cell phones are also great in a bad situation, but
much more expensive to keep with a child.
- Cellular phones are a must for
teenagers but must be used correctly: To call you if anything happens that
they need you for, such as a ride home and to keep you informed of any
changes in their plans. Remember that a cell phone won't help them against
an abduction but it can keep them from getting into a bad situation to start
with.
- Teach a child that they must never
help a stranger in any way. Even a seemingly safe assistance such as
reaching for mail from a person in a car that may ask them to put it into a
mail box they may be standing near could be the last thing they do.
- Abductors work in ingenious ways.
They might even call your home when your children are alone and say that you
have ordered a Pizza for them since you can't make it home on time to make
them their meal. That he'll be there in 5 minutes. Will your child open the
door to them?
- Teach your child never to tell any
stranger who calls on the phone when you are not present anything other
than: "My mom (dad) can't come to the phone right now. Can I take your
name and phone number? She (He) will call you back as soon as she (he)
can." If they don't give that information to your child, the
conversation is over...period. Be very aware that with today's cellular
technology, the person could be calling from right outside with visual
contact of your home. The less information given, the better. If
they saw the parent leave (It could also be you, a woman alone in the house,
if your husband has just left!) and you or your child lies, saying that they
are busy right now, they'll know. If you or your child tells them the
truth...that he or she has just left and might be gone for a while...they
have just received the information they were looking for. A big
opportunity to get you or your child.
- If your child becomes lost at any
public place teach your child to look for a policeman, however, chances are
there may not be one just when your child needs one so the next best thing
is to go to the nearest mom they can see (any woman with kids is easy to
spot) and a safer bet than anyone else that may be available. Always pick a
very public, centrally located spot to meet them at as soon as possible if
or when you become separated from them for any reason, especially if you do
not have walkie-talkies or cellular phones.
- Teach your child to yell that the
person they are screaming to get away from is not their Dad (or Mom).
Sometimes possible bystanders assume that what is going on is a family
argument and not a criminal abduction.
- Don't let your child accept gifts
from anyone not specifically approved by you.
- Don't allow your child to talk to
someone on the other side of a school fence. Teach them to run to a teacher
and inform them.
- Don't allow your child unrestricted
or unsupervised access to the internet on any computer. ESPECIALLY CHAT
ROOMS. Always know who your child is establishing a relationship with
(TEENAGERS TOO).
- Observe curfews strictly with
teenagers, with girls always use even more strict guidelines, there is
wisdom in the traditional conservative ways like chaperoning or supervising
dates including after-prom parties.
You will not be adored by your child for these precautions but they will
thank you years later for caring enough about them to do this for them.
In the state of Maine where I reside, the legal age of consent is 14!
Unbelievable isn't it. So if you don't want to see your daughter have
an abortion or have a child so early in life and become responsible for the
upbringing of that child, watch your daughters carefully.
- Tough love works, it calls for
reading the riot act to your teenage child if they insist on unwholesome or
promiscuous behavior. Let them know up front that if you are
responsible for them, you have to have the authority to discipline them.
If they insist on their "legal" rights, let them know they
can always become wards of the state instead and live in a group home.
That should make them understand that if you are responsible you have to
have authority, there can be no other way.
- Let your child know that with
privileges comes responsibilities and hold them to it. Maturity comes from
understanding and abiding by this principle.
- Always tell your child where
they should be, what time to be home by and to go directly home from where
they may be going to.
- If your child walks to school they
should always take the same route, go with them at first and let them know
where all the safe places and locations are where they can take refuge if
anything happens along the way. Do not allow them to take unsafe short cuts
across parks, etc. Check up on them occasionally by following them at
a distance.
- When walking on public streets teach
your child to walk in the middle of the sidewalk, away from doorways,
alley-ways and parked cars, especially vans, always if possible against the
direction of vehicle traffic.
- Do not allow your child to befriend
the children of unwholesome people. Know the parents of your child's friends
well! Never allow play dates unless you know exactly who will be there. How
well do you know the parents and the siblings of your child's friend?
- Search and seizure laws do not apply
to parents, go through your child's belongings if you suspect anything like
drug abuse, etc. The unsavory characters involved in drug trafficking
to kids are capable of anything! Start keeping your kids busy as they
approach their teen years with challenging and or fun after school
activities such as sports or wholesome clubs (hint: martial arts classes).
- Always let your child know that
you are doing these things because you love them and want to protect them.
EASY TECHNIQUES TO TEACH YOUR CHILD
The following techniques for
children come from nationally acclaimed safety expert Bob Stuber:
Velcro technique: Children cannot only yell out for help, they can
grab hold of an adult for help. This involves the adult in the situation in a
manner that forces participation.
Windmill technique: If somebody is bigger and stronger than the child,
the child rotates his or her arm forward in a big circle, preventing the
would-be attacker from grabbing hold.
Bicycle Hug: If a would-be abductor attempts to grab a child off a
bike, the child can "hug" the bicycle, making abduction difficult, if
not impossible.
Techniques for a child inside an abductor's car are also simple:
* The first thing Stuber tells a child is to open the door and get out. Children
need to make a lot of noise at the very beginning of this whole process, Stuber
said.
* If it's a four-door car, the child can jump into the back seat and go out
the back door really quickly.
The child is not going to get hurt at this point. "He [the abductor]
wants to get out somewhere by himself. He may threaten the child, but he's not
going to hurt the child right there. That's not what this is about. That takes
place later.
*Another technique for a child inside the car is to place an object in the
ignition cylinder, where the key goes in. It can be a stick. It can be a button
off their clothing. Even bubble gum works. Once they do that, they can't get the
key back in.
If you can't get the key in to start the car, this isn't going to go any
further, and that's the key to the whole thing, stopping it. If the car
can be stopped or the potential crime can be stopped in the neighborhood, then
the crime is going to come to an end.
Children placed in a trunk should be taught how to disconnect the taillights
by finding a panel in the back corner of just about every car. Anybody can pull
that panel off. Inside are the wires. If you pull those wires, you disconnect
the brake and taillights. Now you have increased the odds 50 percent that the
police will pull the car over because it has no brake or tail lights; then they
will hear the child inside.
Simple actions such as blowing a whistle are among the strongest deterrents.
It's all about common sense. It's all about taking advantage of little
opportunities as they present themselves. And it isn't very hard for a child to
do.
The FBI has a good website with the information given hear. The unique part
of the FBI site is that it is written for kids to read: www.fbi.gov/kids/k5th/safety4.htm
HOW DO I KNOW IF MY CHILD HAS BEEN MOLESTED?
- Fear of certain places, people, activities or if they do not want to be
alone with certain people. A child should never be forced to give
affection to other people if they do not want to. This avoidance may
indicate a problem.
- Afraid to go to bed, constant nightmares or other related sleep problems.
- Changes in the child's behavior, sudden mood swings, fearfulness,
withdrawal from things around them and excessive crying.
- Having an unusual interest in sexual matters or acting out sexual acts.
- Rebellious or aggressive behavior.
- Regression or infantile behavior.
- Pain, itching, bleeding or rawness in the private areas.
EXCELLENT BOOK:
- "Street Sense for Parents" by Louis R. Mizell, Jr. (ISBN
0-425-14947-1)
HOW TO IDENTIFY A STRANGE VEHICLE OR
PERSON:
One of the key ways to help the police
to quickly apprehend a possible child abductor and get your child back is to be
able to give a good description of the suspect to the police. Use
caution, do not put yourself at risk by approaching closer in order to obtain
this information.
- Color or colors of vehicle.
- Type of vehicle (Make, Model...Ford
Pick Up, etc.).
- License plate numbers and State the
license plate is from.
- Anything else that might be used to
distinguish the vehicle such as: dents, rust, window tinting, etc.
- Race/nationality (White, Black,
Asian, Hispanic, Indian, etc.).
- Sex (Male/Female).
- Approximate age.
- Height & Build (tall, short,
thin, heavy set, etc.).
- Hair color & length, or lack of
hair (baldness), facial hair (mustache, beard, sideburns, clean shaven,
etc.).
- Any other identifying marks such as scars, tattoos, clothing style and
colors (hats, jackets, coat, glasses etc.).
- Pets or companions with them and their descriptions.
WHAT DO I DO IF SOMEONE TRIES TO
ABDUCT ME:
- Remember the word SKY (Scream/Kick/Yell). These three things
will draw attention to you and could save your life.
- Look for a person you know or a safe place to go to. Run there and ask for
help. Do not go towards your home unless it close by and you know someone is
there that can help.
- Stay near people if at all possible. Do not run into an open field
or wooded area.
- Do not go anywhere with the abductor no matter what they may say.
They are lying to you to get you to come to a more private place where they
can and will do anything they want to you. Fight right there.
- When yelling for help in indoor situations such as hotels don't
yell HELP, yell FIRE, you are much more likely to have people come
out looking to escape a possible fire (and discover your situation).
Most people are unwilling or afraid to become involved in a crime situation
if they can help it.
THE 4 R'S:
- REACT: Don't wait, the moment someone starts to threaten or grab
you do something.
- RELEASE: Get away by using SKY.
- RETALIATE: Hit, kick or punch.
- RUN: Get out of the area as fast as you can.
HOW TO AVOID BEING THE VICTIM OF A VIOLENT
CRIME...ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A WOMAN:
VIOLENT CRIME STATISTICS:
1 out of every 5 men
and 1 out of every 4 women will most likely encounter a violent crime against
them in their lifetime. This is a worse statistical chance than playing
Russian Roulette (1 out of 6 chance of shooting yourself with the average 6
round revolver). Not too many people are crazy enough to play Russian
Roulette yet very few people are adequately prepared against violent crime.
Most just take their "chances" and let fate take its course. How
many people do you know who ride in a car without a seat belt? Well guess
what, your chances are better there too.
Michigan Council on Crime and
Delinquency Study found that women are raped by:
- 10.6 % by strangers
- 24.9 % by acquaintances
- 30 % by steady dates
- 21 % by casual dates
- 8.9 % by family members
Department of Justice Statistics:
- 54 % of all women raped were 18
years old or younger
- 22 % were 12 years old
- 13 % were 12 to 17 years old
- 66 % of these assaults were
committed by persons known to them
- Evidence shows that every day
from 1,500 to 1,800 women or more are raped in the United States.
You must remember that once you dial
911 (if you are lucky enough to get a chance) a police officer will not
magically appear in a moment like a Genie from a magic lamp. It takes time
to dispatch and travel to where you are. The Police is not their to
protect YOU, they are primarily there to investigate crime and bring criminals
to justice. You must learn to protect YOURSELF!
Three reasons some people are easy targets for random acts of violence
are:
- Lack of awareness. You MUST know where you are & what's going on
around you.
- Body Language Keep your head up, swing your arms, stand straight up.
-
Wrong Place, Wrong Time DON'T walk alone in an alley, or
drive in a bad neighborhood at night.
WHAT TO DO:
- The elbows and knees are the strongest points on your body. If you are
close enough to use them, do!
- Always go for the less guarded targets first, legs are best.
- Buy and learn to use a simple weapon you can have with you at all times.
Kubotan key chains are an excellent choice.
- If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail
lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The
driver won't see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.
- If you can reach the foot petals of the car and it is on the road press
the accelerator and cause a traffic accident, your chances are much better
that way and you will definitely call attention to the situation.
- Your car is a very powerful weapon, if you can use it, do!
- Always in traffic allow space between your vehicle and the one in front of
you for maneuverability, this has prevented many a car jacking.
- Never overdress for a situation. You do not need to wear all your
expensive jewelry to go to the Laundromat!
- Wear your expensive diamond rings stone in when riding on public
transportation such as subways and buses.
- Always check a taxicab's license and make sure it matches the driver
BEFORE getting in.
- People, especially women have a tendency to get into their cars after
shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or
making a list, etc). DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and
this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in the passenger side, put a
gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR
CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.
- Know where you are going and how to get there, you don't want to get lost
in a bad neighborhood.
- Always trust your instincts, if you think you are being followed you
probably are. Try this experiment: Have 3 people stare at the
back of an unsuspecting person at a party. Time how long it takes for them
to turn around (if they aren't inebriated), less than 10 second is typical.
There are simple techniques you can learn in order to verify if you are
indeed being followed, if you insist on not believing your own instincts.
- If somebody is running after you throw your purse or wallet in the
opposite direction you are running. If they go for it, you know they don't
want you.
- Have your keys ready before going out to the car or leaving the car for
your house door. Don't be caught fumbling around for them when you get
there.
- When getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage: Be aware -
look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the
back seat.
- If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger
door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their
vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
- Get a cellular phone for your car and for yourself especially if you are a
woman.
- Speed dial your emergency numbers on all of your phones.
- Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the
passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you
may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to
walk you back out.
- ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible
places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).
- Never get into an elevator when there is only one or two men already in
it. Pretend to be waiting for one going in the opposite direction and
wait for the next one. If a single or a couple of men get in while you
are in an elevator, get out and wait for the next one.
- If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS
RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times. And
even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!
- Women are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped,
or killed.
- Always make sure that a policeman is really a policeman if stopped on the
road for no apparent reason. If unsure, and especially if late at
night in a rural area drive to the nearest police station, they are usually
in the center of town. Don't be afraid of using a cell phone to call
for police help, if it's really them you have nothing to fear.
- Urinating, defecating or throwing up on yourself by sticking your finger
down your throat can take sexual urges away from anyone.
- Never accept a drink of any kind from someone unless you know exactly what
is in it, it is even dangerous to leave a drink unattended with a man you
don't know well. Many a date rape has occurred by the rapist slipping
a drug into the drink, then pretending his "date" is drunk and out
of it and taking them elsewhere under the pretense of being a true
"gentleman" to those present.
- It is always safer to double date when involved in a "blind
date".
- Never be alone with a date unless you know them well.
- If attacked by a stranger in a public place always alert those around you
that the person attacking you is a stranger to you and be specific in
picking out someone to help you. Psychologically people may assume that it
may be a lovers quarrel and not want to become involved. Also, if there are
many witnesses to the assault, no one will feel that it is their personal
responsibility to help, so be specific. For example yell out something like
"You there in the red baseball cap, call the police, I don't know this
guy." or "You three guys in the Giants football jerseys help get
this guy away from me, I don't know him." etc.
IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY.
(And better paranoid than dead.)
Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS
played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a
limp, and often asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle,
which is when he abducted his next victim.
Pat Malone (a well known self-defense specialist) tells the story of his
daughter, who came out of a mall and was walking to her car when she noticed 2
older ladies in front of her. Then she saw a police car come towards her
with cops who said hello. She also noticed that all 8 handicap spots in the area
were empty. As she neared her car she saw a man a few rows over calling to her
for help. He wanted her to close his passenger side door. He was sitting in the
back on the driver's side, and said he was handicapped. He continued calling,
until she turned and headed back to the mall, and then he began cursing at her.
In the meantime, she wondered why he didn't ask the 2 older ladies, or the
policeman for help, and why he was not parked in any of the empty handicap
spots. As she got back to the mall, two men stopped, and turned to point at the
car, the man was getting out of the back seat into the front and the car sped
away. DON'T GET CAUGHT IN THIS TRAP.
HOW TO SAFEGUARD YOUR HOME AGAINST UNLAWFUL ENTRY:
- Do question politically correct myths about gun ownership. The
statistics are false because they do not take into account drug trafficking,
drug addiction, alcoholism, mental or personality disorders, unwholesome
sexual promiscuity (adultery), and gang related activities. If you and
your family do not fall into any of these categories the risks you will be
taking are indeed minimal and can be addressed through good firearm use
education. Primarily, do not let your child have access to them without
supervision. Teach all members of the family to respect a gun the same
way they respect the use of fire, gas stoves, edged instruments and motor
vehicles. All these are potentially dangerous, yet also very
beneficial when used correctly. The NRA and local gun clubs are
excellent resources to become educated in proper use and care of firearms. States
where citizens can legally posses handguns and furthermore have a legal
right to carry a concealed firearm have violent crime, murder, robbery and
aggravated assault rates that are 27%, 32%, 45% and 20% respectively lower
than states that prohibit or severely restrict it. (Reported by the Bureau
of Alcohol, Tobacco Firearms and Explosives) In comparison, Great Britain,
where a broad ban on handguns, most rifles and many shotguns took effect in
1997, the violent crime rate has risen by a staggering 69%, murder 54% and
robbery by 45% since then. (Reported by the UK's Home Office)
- Dogs (any dog or breed) are wonderful and inexpensive alarm systems when
trained properly.
- Neighbors are a fantastic source of security, know your neighbors well.
If they are decent law abiding citizens and most are, they will be your best
defense against burglars when you are not home. Let them know when you
will be away and have them take in your mail and newspapers if they are
delivered. They are more trustworthy than someone you don't know.
They can be a great asset with teenagers. One of my neighbors who has
a teenage daughter knows he can count on knowing instantly if his daughter
brings home a male companion when they aren't around.
- Neighborhood Watch programs are worth getting involved with. If you
don't have one, talk to your police department, they will inform you on how
to start one.
- Always leave outdoor lights on at night around your home, not just when
you are away.
- When away leave a vehicle parked in the driveway if at all possible and
set some interior light on timers.
- Remember, the more noise you and your family makes in cases of break-ins,
the more attention you will call upon your home, this is a good thing in
cases of break-ins because now the perpetrator also has to worry about your
neighbors.
- Never leave any door open or unlocked at anytime unless you are within
sight of it, including garage doors. Dead bolt locks are best.
- Never open your door unless you know exactly who is there. Send
strange people away. If someone has just left your home and someone
knocks right after, never assume that it was the same person who just left.
- Never allow service men of any kind in unless you specifically called for
them and they can verify who they are. This includes policemen (police
badges and uniforms can be obtained easily enough). This rule is
especially important in hotels.
- Never leave easily accessible windows open or unlocked unless you have to.
- Never place outdoor plants or bushes in places where a person can hide
behind them near your house to either enter it unseen from the road or
surprise you when approaching your home.
- Always let there be good visibility between your home and the street. The
more private a home seems because of woods, etc. the more likely it is to be
the choice target for a criminal.
- If an alarm sounds or a well trained dog barks for no apparent reason, the
more you should be resolved to investigate what is wrong.
- Never close your child's bedroom door or your own when sleeping at night.
- Place objects that can easily fall and break making plenty of noise on
door handles leading into your home and window sills, etc. The movie
"Conspiracy Theory" showed one very simple technique that can even
be used in a hotel room...balance an empty bottle open end down on a door
handle, if the handle is turned it will fall off AND MAKE LOTS OF NOISE.
- Keep a good flashlight (and a cellular phone if possible - criminals have
a habit of cutting phone lines before entering homes) by your bed at night.
Don't point the flashlight directly in front of you, if possible hold it at
arms length next to you.
- Don't turn on the interior lights when investigating inside your home at
night. You know the layout much better than anyone else, let them stumble
over something and give away their position quickly.
- Call for help immediately, before investigating if you know that chances
are someone is there.
- Keep a small sized golf club by your door in your umbrella rack, they
swing better than baseball bats with one hand. Never go for the head first,
always the legs first.
- Familiarize yourself with all potential environmental weapons in the home,
including bathroom mirrors that can be broken with a towel wrapped hand
creating a nice knife-like weapon. Hair spray cans used with a small lighter
can be used to send a stream of fire into a perpetrator's face like a flame
thrower. Lamps, furniture, staircases, anything can become a
useful weapon in a bad situation.
- Create a "safe room" preferably on each floor of your home where
family members can hold out until help can arrive. Bathrooms or rooms
with good locking solid doors are best. Take a cell phone in and have
weapons already there waiting or know how to make them from things already
there.
- If you do own a gun and use it in the event of a break in, make sure you
inform the police when calling for help that you have a gun and describe who
you are and what you look like and are wearing so you don't get shot by the
police accidentally mistaking you for the criminal.
- When the police arrive ALWAYS DO EXACTLY WHAT THEY TELL YOU TO DO.
- Drill your family for all kinds of emergencies, including fire and
break-ins. All family members old enough to understand what to do
should know in advance what to do and how to do it.
ANYONE CAN FIND WHERE YOU LIVE AND HOW TO GET THERE IF THEY
KNOW YOUR PHONE NUMBER
Google has implemented a new feature wherein you can type someone's telephone
number into the search bar and hit enter and then you will be given a map to
their house. I tested it by typing my telephone number in google.com.
(search-bar also) My phone number came up, complete with my address and
when I clicked on the MapQuest link, it actually mapped out where I live.
Quite scary. Please look up your own number. Think about it--if a
child, single person, ANYONE gives out his/her phone number, someone can
actually now look it up to find out where he/she lives and how to get there from
anywhere. The safety issues are obvious, and alarming.
This is not a hoax.
MapQuest and Yahoo Maps will put a star on your house on your street as
well as give detailed directions and maps on how to get there from anywhere!
In order to test whether your phone number is mapped, go to:
http://www.google.com/.
or the google search bar
Type your phone number in the search bar (i.e. 555-555-1212)
(actually it will come up even if typed in as 5555551212 as well) and hit
enter. This will divulge your name and address as it appears in
your local phone book. You will see a link option to the right for
MapQuest (click on it), which will use the address to provide a map to
your home or place of business.
If you want to BLOCK Google from divulging your private information,
simply click on the telephone icon next to your phone number. (You
might to click on the address, not the icon, to bring up the form for
removal.) I removed my name, which takes about 48 hours to occur.
If you are unlisted in the phone book, you might not be in there, but it is
a good idea just to check. (I tried an unlisted number and it did not
work.)
Yahoo does not do the same, however they do publish your address and
directions in their Yahoo Maps. It is a bit more complicated. It is a
privacy violation so you can click on (Privacy Policy) and then click on
(Contact us) and follow directions there.
PLEASE BE SAFE AND NOT SORRY! JUST A WARNING TO ALWAYS BE ALERT AND USE
YOUR HEAD!!! FEEL FREE TO COPY AND SEND THIS INFORMATION TO ANYONE WHO COULD USE
IT WISELY, ESPECIALLY WOMEN AND PARENTS OF SMALL CHILDREN.
If you have any questions regarding anything discussed above please feel free to contact
me: senseiphil@northerncrane.net
This information has come into my hands from a variety of sources and personal
experience over decades of training and training others in self-defense and
martial arts. I am aware that some of my opinions may not be politically correct
at this time but if this information saves just one life I will be happy to take all the
criticism anyone wishes to hand out to me.
I am available for self-defense seminars and or private self-defense
classes at my or any other location. Of course when I to travel to another location
there is a higher fee. Please contact me for further information.
If you are interested in having a self-defense seminar or private class
please
become familiar with the important information listed above before that date since we won't have
enough time then to deal in detail with everything listed. Instead we
will try to clarify and answer any questions you may have regarding this
information. The core of this seminar will be dedicated to teaching simple,
easy to learn and remember self-defense techniques that might make the
difference between life and death for you.
Copyright © 2003 By Phil Perez [Northern Crane]. All rights reserved.
Revised: November 07, 2006.
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